Helping Teens Take Ownership: 3 Keys To Accountability

Helping Teens Take Ownership: 3 Keys to Accountability

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    We had a very positive experience with Alissa as a tutor for our pod of 5th grade boys from January - June 2020. She cared a lot about the boys and worked hard to create meaningful activities for them. The pod experience was invaluable … More for all of our families during a difficult year and we were so grateful to have found this partnership! We also want to appreciate Craig for helping to match us with a tutor on very short notice after we had cycled through a few folks who were not able to see the commitment through. Thanks for sticking with us!
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    Dusty was the exact person we needed to help our child finish out the school year. So grateful to him for the way he steadily encouraged her and helped her stay on track and organized. He is flexible, responsive to our needs/schedule as … More a family, and a delight to be with. We are also thankful that Craig at Themba Tutors really "gets it" and partnered us with such a wonderful tutor who was a great fit for our girl.
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    I am going into my second year as a Themba tutor. I have met so many great individuals while working for this company. Craig and the rest of the Themba team do such an excellent job picking and choosing Themba tutors that suit each client's … More individual needs! I look forward to meeting new tutors and clients in the 2021-2022 school year!
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    We have been with our tutor, Cailin Schiller, for two years, from 5th - 7th grade. She started as an executive functioning tutor with my daughter. From the start, she demonstrated a depth of expertise and a selective use of techniques skillfully … More adapted to my daughter’s ADHD and Math disability. Cailin made Math accessible and understandable to her in a way that even her teachers had not been able to do. She differentiated reading, writing and math tasks and assignments to tailor them to my daughter’s unique learning differences. Not only did it have an effect on her grades and her work efficiency, but she finally could do her work with less anxiety. Even my daughter’s teachers used Cailin’s guidance to modify their work with her. But most importantly, she became my daughter’s favorite resource. I can’t say how invaluable Cailin has been to my daughter’s progress and well-being. I’d recommend her a million times over. She is a gem.
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    I'm so glad we were referred to Themba Tutors. After a great initial conversation to learn our needs, we were connected with an excellent tutor, Felicia, who is helping our high school daughter learn better organizational and executive … More skills. Highly recommended.
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    Themba Tutors provided a leaning specialist that was a perfect fit for my daughter. I told them what we were looking for and they delivered. Our tutor is responsive and flexible and makes it easy for my daughter to reach out to her own … More her own, which gives her an added sense of responsibility over her learning. As a therapist myself, I now regularly recommend Themba to my patients. A much needed and well provided service to the community!!
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    The tutors at Themba are fantastic! Caitlyn McNeill helped our son academically, but also with getting organized in every subject, which he so desperately needed. She offered great advice and useful strategies that helped our son become … More a more successful student. We are using Themba tutors again this year for our daughter. We're so happy to have been referred to them!
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    The tutors at Themba are fantastic! Caitlyn McNeill helped our son academically, but also with getting organized in every subject, which he so desperately needed. She offered great advice and useful strategies that helped our son become … More a more successful student. We are using Themba tutors again this year for our daughter. We're so happy to have been referred to them!
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    We were very lucky to have found Edwouine Swift, my son's therapist through Themba Tutors. Thomas is 12 years old, and it is extremely difficult to get him to write. Edwouine just works her magic with him, he adores her and is so … More eager to follow her guidance. I have no doubt she will be a positive driving force in his academic future.

HELPING TEENS TAKE OWNERSHIP: 3 KEYS TO ACCOUNTABILITY

3 Keys To Accountability

3 Keys to Accountability

So your teen seems less accountable these days, and you’re trying to figure out why. You’ve tried to inspire motivation through rewards and consequences, but real change still needs to be discovered. The truth is that accountability and buy-in are different. You can force your teen to comply, but you can’t force true ownership. The good news is that there are 3 keys to helping your teen develop an internal drive for responsibility. Keep reading to discover how to get your teen to step up in a way that lasts.

Why Ownership And Buy-Ins Are Not The Same Thing?

Why ownership and buy-ins are not the same thing

Owning a task means taking full responsibility for getting it done, while buying in means agreeing to support an initiative. For teens, the difference is key.

When your teen takes ownership of responsibilities like homework, chores, or a school project, they’re accountable for following through from start to finish. They make a plan, anticipate obstacles, and see it as their objective to achieve, not just something you’ve told them to do. Accountability comes from within.

In contrast, a buy-in is more superficial. Your teen may agree that doing well in school or being part of the community is important, but that mindset won’t motivate them to take action when it gets tough. Your vision and values are driving them, not their own. For teens to become accountable and self-reliant, they need to take ownership. Make their responsibilities theirs, and offer your support and guidance as they work to accomplish what they’ve committed to. Accountability will follow.

How To Help Your Teen Kids To Take Accountability And Ownership?

To help your teen take ownership, focus on these keys:

  1. Give them choices. Let your teen make decisions when possible. This helps them see the impact of their choices and actions. Don’t nag them if they choose not to do chores or homework. Let them experience the natural consequences. They’ll learn accountability.
  2. Teach responsibility. Give your teen responsibilities that increase over time as they show they can handle them. Start with small chores or tasks and build up from there. Make sure they understand why each responsibility is important. This helps them buy-in.
  3. Be a good role model. Model the behavior you want to see. Admit when you make a mistake and take responsibility for your actions. Discuss how you hold yourself accountable in your own life. Your teen is always watching you. Set a good example.

Helping your teen develop accountability and ownership is challenging but so important. With patience, the right approach, and by leading by example, you can guide them to become responsible young adults. The lessons they learn now will serve them well for life.

Why help your teen kids to take ownership and responsibility is important?

Helping Teens Take Ownership: 3 Keys to Accountability

Why Help Your Teen Kids To Take Ownership And Responsibility Is Important?

As a parent, helping your teen develop a sense of accountability and ownership over their lives is one of the most valuable gifts you can give them. They gain independence and control over their future when they take responsibility for their actions and choices.

Some Key Reasons Accountability Is So Important For Teens:

  • It builds confidence and self-esteem. Taking ownership of their mistakes and successes helps teens build an internal sense of control and competence.
  • It prepares them for adulthood. The real world demands accountability. Developing this skill now will help them thrive as independent adults.
  • It leads to better decision-making. Teens who feel accountable for the outcomes of their choices tend to make wiser decisions. They consider the consequences and think before they act.
  • It strengthens your relationship. When you give teens more responsibility and independence, it builds mutual trust and respect. They see you believe in them, and they rise to meet your expectations.
  • It reduces conflict. Accountability and ownership prevent blame, excuses, and arguments. Teens learn to accept the results of their actions and work to resolve issues themselves.

Instilling a strong sense of accountability in your teen isn’t always easy, but it is worth the effort. They can develop these crucial life skills with your support and guidance and become responsible, independent young adults.

Conclusion

Here are three essential keys to help your teenager cultivate a sense of ownership and accountability:

1. Empower them by offering opportunities to make choices and participate in decisions that impact their lives.
2. Provide them with guidance and support, while also granting them the space to solve problems autonomously.
3. Maintain consistency by implementing appropriate consequences when they make less favorable choices, all the while offering encouragement and praise when they exhibit responsibility.

Praising your child three times more than you criticize them helps build their confidence and self-esteem. The 3:1 positive-to-negative ratio is a simple rule of thumb to help you maintain the right balance.

Helping teens gain life skills like accountability and ownership is challenging but worthwhile. With your support and these techniques, your teen can build confidence by tackling responsibilities independently and learn lessons that will serve them well into adulthood. The road ahead may not always be easy, but with ownership comes empowerment. Moreover, an empowered teen is a force to be reckoned with! Stay patient through the ups and downs, keep the lines of communication open, and watch as your teen blossoms into a responsible and independent young adult.

Do you need help in giving your teenager ownership? Chat with Themba Tutors today.
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Meet Craig Selinger, the passionate owner behind Themba Tutors, a renowned practice specializing in executive function coaching and tutoring. Together with his team of multidisciplinary professionals, they bring their extensive knowledge to numerous locations: Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, Staten Island, Bronx, Westchester, Long Island, New Jersey, and Connecticut, as well as offering remote services. As a licensed speech-language pathologist in the state of NY, executive functioning coach, and educational specialist with an impressive track record spanning over two decades, Craig has professionally assisted thousands of families. Craig's proficiency encompasses a wide spectrum of areas, including language-related learning challenges such as reading, writing, speaking, and listening. He is also well-versed in executive functioning, ADHD/ADD, and various learning disabilities. What truly distinguishes Craig and his team is their unwavering commitment to delivering comprehensive support. By actively collaborating with the most esteemed professionals within the NYC metropolitan region – from neuropsychologists to mental health therapists and allied health experts – they create a network of expertise.
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