04 Sep Supporting Your Child’s Academic Success After Divorce: A Guide for Co-Parents
Brooklyn Letters
1139 Prospect Avenue, Brooklyn
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Nicole has been an amazing therapist!! She played a tremendous role in our daughter’s speech progress and overall development. She has come such a long way and we are so happy with the therapy she received!
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I cannot express how grateful and rewarding my experience with Brooklyn Letters has been. Her tutor Ms. Daria is so knowledgeable, amazing, kind and awesome. My daughter has made so much progress in Literacy and Math and it's all … More thanks to Ms. Daria. I know my daughter is sad that she can no longer work with Ms. Daria, as she looked forward to their sessions every week. Thank you again!
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Christina was absolutely wonderful. She went out of her way to win my son over and it worked. He looked forward to her visits and his speech improved so much under her care. She was super flexible and it’s clear she truly cares. We adore … More Christina and we’re going to miss her. Almost sad he improved so much! She’s simply amazing and we can’t say enough how great she is. I would recommend her services to anyone and everyone, without hesitation. Thank you so much for connecting us with her!
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We could not be happier with the services Valerie provided! She is very thoughtful and knowledgeable and provided significant guidance to support our daughter's speech development outside of our scheduled sessions. She established … More a great working relationship with her, and she will definitely be missed! Your business model is amazing and it was an absolute pleasure working with Valerie. I've referred your organization and Valerie to the Executive Director of our daughter's school and friends/colleagues who are in need of speech therapy services.
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We cannot say enough good things about Effie, the ASL teacher, who was so engaged and effective with our 2 year old daughter from the very first session! Effie gladly included our whole family in the sessions! Her expertise and fantastic … More personality gave our daughter a way to communicate that she was so desperately seeking. The coordinators at Brooklyn Letters were so helpful and communicative…I would highly recommend their services!
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Samantha Dalmas was fantastic! We saw her for a feeding therapy evaluation and while she doesn’t think my daughter needs more feeding therapy sessions at this time, but she gave me lots of tips to try. If my daughter's doctors want … More to see more progress at her next appointment, I wouldn’t hesitate to reach out to Samantha again.
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We had a very positive experience with Alissa as a tutor for our pod of 5th grade boys from January - June 2020. She cared a lot about the boys and worked hard to create meaningful activities for them. The pod experience was invaluable … More for all of our families during a difficult year and we were so grateful to have found this partnership! We also want to appreciate Craig for helping to match us with a tutor on very short notice after we had cycled through a few folks who were not able to see the commitment through. Thanks for sticking with us!
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Dusty was the exact person we needed to help our child finish out the school year. So grateful to him for the way he steadily encouraged her and helped her stay on track and organized. He is flexible, responsive to our needs/schedule as … More a family, and a delight to be with. We are also thankful that Craig at Themba Tutors really "gets it" and partnered us with such a wonderful tutor who was a great fit for our girl.
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My child worked with Gillian D virtually for math enrichment. She is an excellent teacher. She took time to understand my child's specific learning style and provided tools that would be engaging. She was kind and empathetic- really … More made it her goal to connect with my child and build trust and rapport. My child started the school year with confidence and without the typically "brain-drain" that occurs over the summer, thanks to Gillian.
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I am going into my second year as a Themba tutor. I have met so many great individuals while working for this company. Craig and the rest of the Themba team do such an excellent job picking and choosing Themba tutors that suit each client's … More individual needs! I look forward to meeting new tutors and clients in the 2021-2022 school year!
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Our son started in a new high school, 100% remote, and was really struggling with Latin and Physics. I found Themba Tudors online and had an initial call with Craig, who was very knowledgeable, responsive, and found 2 amazing tutors for … More us. Both the Latin and the physics tutors were fantastic, connected with my son really well and helped him go from 'failing' grade to 'honors'! I will for sure continue using (and recommending!) Themba Tutors. Thank you, C, K, and W!
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Brian is a fantastic executive functioning coach. Super helpful, flexible with hours, and tailored the experience to our needs.
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Giulia Mercuri is a great Italian tutor! She was very responsive and accessible. Giulia put a ton of effort into preparing for each session and really helped our son with test preparation and projects. We are grateful that she was able … More to help, especially since our son did not receive any live teaching during COVID. We are happy that she was referred to us!
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As an adult student diagnosed with a learning disability during grad school, I knew I needed help dealing with my Master's program's demanding workload. I was seriously considering dropping out when I was referred to Themba Tutors. … More I was paired up with a wonderful tutor, Julie, who was a total lifesaver. I learned many techniques that I can utilize in the future as I embark on the next phase of my career.
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We were introduced to a wonderful tutor: Mcedwyn. He and our son, a freshman in college, worked well together. As a result, our son’s grades significantly improved. The tutor taught our son subject content and various methods to effectively … More study for quizzes and exams. Our son was also taught time management and organization. My son’s experience with the tutor made the first year of college a less intimidating experience.
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We have been with our tutor, Cailin Schiller, for two years, from 5th - 7th grade. She started as an executive functioning tutor with my daughter. From the start, she demonstrated a depth of expertise and a selective use of techniques skillfully … More adapted to my daughter’s ADHD and Math disability. Cailin made Math accessible and understandable to her in a way that even her teachers had not been able to do. She differentiated reading, writing and math tasks and assignments to tailor them to my daughter’s unique learning differences. Not only did it have an effect on her grades and her work efficiency, but she finally could do her work with less anxiety. Even my daughter’s teachers used Cailin’s guidance to modify their work with her. But most importantly, she became my daughter’s favorite resource. I can’t say how invaluable Cailin has been to my daughter’s progress and well-being. I’d recommend her a million times over. She is a gem.
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Victoria is a superb tutor. She helped my high school age daughter with her writing. Victoria's skills as a tutor, as well as her sense of humor and her engaging personality went a long way with my daughter.
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Themba Tutors provided a leaning specialist that was a perfect fit for my daughter. I told them what we were looking for and they delivered. Our tutor is responsive and flexible and makes it easy for my daughter to reach out to her own … More her own, which gives her an added sense of responsibility over her learning. As a therapist myself, I now regularly recommend Themba to my patients. A much needed and well provided service to the community!!
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The tutors at Themba are fantastic! Caitlyn McNeill helped our son academically, but also with getting organized in every subject, which he so desperately needed. She offered great advice and useful strategies that helped our son become … More a more successful student. We are using Themba tutors again this year for our daughter. We're so happy to have been referred to them!
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I'm so glad we were referred to Themba Tutors. After a great initial conversation to learn our needs, we were connected with an excellent tutor, Felicia, who is helping our high school daughter learn better organizational and executive … More skills. Highly recommended.
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We had a wonderful experience with our tutor Micaela. She helped our son not only academically but at every level. We will be forever grateful to have her in our lives.
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The tutors at Themba are fantastic! Caitlyn McNeill helped our son academically, but also with getting organized in every subject, which he so desperately needed. She offered great advice and useful strategies that helped our son become … More a more successful student. We are using Themba tutors again this year for our daughter. We're so happy to have been referred to them!
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Paul Smith at Themba has been an exceptional tutor for my son, both in terms of teaching the subject matter and teaching how best to approach the process of learning math and executing assignments. We feel very fortunate to be working with … More Paul.
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We were very lucky to have found Edwouine Swift, my son's therapist through Themba Tutors. Thomas is 12 years old, and it is extremely difficult to get him to write. Edwouine just works her magic with him, he adores her and is so … More eager to follow her guidance. I have no doubt she will be a positive driving force in his academic future.
Supporting Your Child’s Academic Success After Divorce:
A Guide for Co-Parents
(Guest Blog Post)
As the founder and therapist at Middle Way Psychotherapy—and a parent who’s walked through the complexities of divorce—I know firsthand how challenging it can be to keep your child’s emotional and academic life steady when so much else is shifting. One of the most common questions I hear from clients is: How do we help our child succeed in school when they’re splitting time between two homes?
The good news is: you don’t have to figure it out alone.
That’s why I recommend trusted partners like Themba Tutors and Brooklyn Letters. Their teams specialize in executive function coaching, subject-specific tutoring, and in-home or virtual academic support that helps bridge the academic gap between two households. As Craig Selinger, founder of Themba Tutors, I’m honored that Tara sees the value in our collaborative approach. Our mission is truly to provide that consistent, high-quality academic support that children need, especially during times of transition.
Bridging the Gap Between Homes: Academic Continuity Post-Divorce
Co-parenting across separate households naturally comes with different routines, different energy, and sometimes different expectations. Themba Tutors offer support designed to create continuity and structure, even when schedules, parenting styles, or household norms differ. (And believe me—they often do!)
Their team can:
- Support the child with executive functioning strategies that adapt across homes—helping children feel more stable and resourced.
- Coordinate with both parents to establish consistent homework systems for co-parents—lightening the emotional load that kids often carry when managing communication between caregivers.
- Offer regular check-ins so everyone stays informed—without requiring long or emotionally charged conversations between co-parents.
This approach reduces stress for both children and adults and promotes a sense of academic stability and accountability, no matter where the child is staying. From our perspective at Themba Tutors, “bridging the gap” means more than just aligning schedules. It means understanding the unique dynamics of each home and equipping the child with flexible, transferable skills. For example, if one parent has a strict “no screens during homework” rule and the other is more lenient, we can help the child develop internal focus strategies that work regardless of the external environment. This empowers the child to take ownership of their learning, rather than relying solely on external structures that might differ.
A Shared Care Team Model for Co-Parent Academic Support
What I appreciate most about working with Themba Tutors is their deep respect for the complexity of family systems. They understand that traditional “one-home” models of support don’t apply when a child moves between two. As founder Craig Selinger explains, that’s exactly why their team is set up to:
- Offer virtual parent meetings that include both caregivers—together or separately.
- Maintain shared progress tracking tools accessible to both parents.
- Provide clear, consistent session summaries to minimize confusion and increase transparency.
This kind of structure helps children feel seen, supported, and understood—no matter how their family is configured. Craig Selinger adds: At Themba Tutors, we believe transparency and open communication are paramount. Our “Shared Care Team Model” ensures that both parents are equally informed about the child’s progress, challenges, and the strategies being implemented. This avoids situations where one parent feels out of the loop, which can inadvertently create stress for the child. We’ve seen how powerful it is for children to know that both of their parents, even if separate, are united in supporting their academic journey. This collaborative approach extends to working with other professionals like Tara, ensuring a cohesive support system for the child’s overall well-being.
Downloadable Co-Parenting Academic Support Checklist
To make things easier, they’ve created a Co-Parenting Academic Support Checklist you can print, share, and refer to as needed. It includes:
- Consistent bedtime and wake-up routines
- Unified screen time expectations
- Shared academic and therapeutic goals
- Clear agreement on who communicates with providers and how often
Craig Selinger notes: This checklist is a practical tool born from our experience seeing what truly helps families navigate academic support post-divorce. It’s designed to minimize friction points and ensure both parents are aligned on the foundational elements of their child’s daily routine and long-term academic vision. Consistency in these seemingly small areas can have a profound positive impact on a child’s sense of security and their ability to focus on learning.
Final Thoughts: Building Academic Stability After Divorce
You don’t need to do this perfectly. Co-parenting through divorce takes real work and a shared commitment to putting your child first. But with the right support team and thoughtful systems in place, you can build an environment where your child continues to learn, grow, and thrive. Craig Selinger concludes: Our role at Themba Tutors is to be part of that “right support team.” We are here to lighten the load for co-parents and, most importantly, to empower children with the skills and confidence they need to succeed academically, no matter their family structure. Seeing children thrive amidst change is why we do what we do, and we are committed to being a consistent, reliable resource for families navigating these paths.
Author Bio (Tara Rullo, LCSW)
Tara Rullo, LCSW, is the Owner and Clinical Director of Middle Way Healing. With over two decades of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families, Tara brings a deeply compassionate and integrative approach to therapy.
A firm believer in each person’s innate ability to heal, grow, and embrace wellness and joy, Tara blends evidence-based modalities—such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Gottman Method Couples Therapy, EMDR, and Focusing—with mindfulness-informed and somatic practices including Kundalini yoga, breathwork, and Emotional Freedom Technique.
Tara draws from the Buddhist principle of the “Middle Way,” bridging extremes to find balance and resilience, and shaping her unique therapeutic philosophy at the heart of Middle Way Healing.
Known for her warm, empathetic, and nonjudgmental presence, Tara is dedicated to supporting clients in deepening self-awareness, cultivating meaningful connection, processing trauma, and transforming emotional patterns into well-being and fulfillment.
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